Monday, December 17, 2012

An Example of Korean Generosity


Many people will say that in general, Koreans are friendly people.  I would say that has been my overall experience during my stay.  However, as I became more immersed into my life here, I tend to forget about that quality.  It’s always nice when you meet someone who reminds you of this endearing trait. 

Yesterday, I went to the Junam Reservior, which is large wetland area that also serves as a winter home to over 20 different species of birds.  The warm weekend weather, coupled with the desire to play around with my new camera, prompted me to make the journey to the outskirts of Changwon.

I walked around the reservoir for over 3 hours enjoying the weather, taking in the scenery, and trying out my camera. I was on my way to the bus stop to head back into Changwon when an elderly man caught my attention and waved for me to come over to him.

After introducing himself and his wife, both of whom spoke decent English, especially for someone their age, he started asking me the usual questions such as, “Where are you from?  What do you do in Korea?  Where do you live here?” and so on.  They then asked me if I would like to join them for some coffee or tea.  I had no specific plans for the day so I agreed.

We headed to the visitors center and ordered our beverages.  They insisted upon paying for my tea.  We sat down and just chatted for over a half-hour.  Just some of the things we talked about were their travels in America, our respective families, our jobs (they are both retired), what I like about Korea, what they liked about America, and current events. 

When we finished, they offered to give me a ride back to Changwon.  I later learned that they live outside of Masan, which means they were going out of their way for me.  Upon dropping me off, I try to thank them for their generosity, but they said they should be thanking me because they don’t often get the opportunity to converse in English.

In this increasingly impersonal and detached world in which we live, it is refreshing to meet people who are willing to show such generosity to a stranger, especially a foreign stranger.  Seemingly insignificant experiences like this, which will not soon be forgotten, will go a long way in my creating and maintaining a positive view of Korea.   

Random Pictures From Junam Reservior

 Note:  The above picture was not taken yesterday, 
but rather a month ago.  I included it because it is 
one of my favorites.








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